Think about it...
Subject: GROWING YOUNGER
The first day of school our professor introduced himself and
challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to
look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned around to find a wrinkled,
little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.
She said, "Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven
years old. May I give you a hug?" I laughed and enthusiastically responded,
"Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze. "Why are you in
college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked. She jokingly
replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, have a couple of children,
and then retire and travel." "No seriously," I asked. I was curious what
may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age. "I always dreamed
of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me.
After class we walked to the student union building and
shared a chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the
next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always
mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and
experience with me.
Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she
easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the
attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up. At the end of
the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I'll never forget what she
taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver
her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. Frustrated
and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, "I'm sorry
I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I'll
never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know."
As we laughed, she cleared her throat and began:
"We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow
old because we stop playing. I've learned a few secrets about staying young,
being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got
to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking
around who are dead and don't even know it!"
"There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight. Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability." "The idea is to grow up by always finding the opportunity in change. Have no regrets. The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets."
She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose." She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the years end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago. One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep.
Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful
woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be.
Remember,
GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY,
GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.
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